Privacy and dignity
Built this way. Not bolted on.
Men in this period have good reasons to be careful. These are the principles guiding how the product is built — and this page says honestly what exists already and what is still on the way.
What you write here stays yours
By default nothing is shared. Sharing with the other parent covers only what you chose to share, only when you chose.
Nothing behind your back
No read receipts and no "last seen" — the other parent gets no notification about what you read or write for yourself. During the closed pilot no one reviews what you write — no safety team either — and never the other parent.
No ads, no selling data
There are no advertisements, no marketing trackers, and your data is never sold or shared for marketing.
Transparency in every use of AI
When you're talking to AI — you know it, and there's an open explanation of what the system does and doesn't do.
Your data stays close
The infrastructure is being built so data is stored in Israel or the European Union only. AI processing and knowledge-base search pass encrypted through external providers — AI processing in the United States, the search at an EU endpoint — for processing only; we do not store the text on our side.
No artificial urgency
No timers, no "3 seats left", no tricks that push a decision. You set the pace — that's part of the product.
And the formal documents?
A full privacy policy and detailed consent documents will be published when the service opens. This page describes how the product is built — it does not replace them.
M4M provides information and frameworks for thinking — never legal advice.